Unplanned, Involuntary, and Weird ACTIONS Speak a Lot Louder Than WORDS

specifically the unplanned, involuntary, and weird ones

Yes! Actions felt  and seen by people around you are so much louder than the words or promises they hear from you. My  point here is, my 'dear' friends, I thought we have agreed that we'll both spread unplanned, involuntary, and weird actions together? But why?? Why am I not observing such actions being put into life?
What I see, hear rather, are the words that come out from your mouths. They say "I do unplanned, involuntary, and weird actions."
But you only 'say' it, yet you do not really 'do' it. That is just so useless. A waste of time. It's just like saying 'i love you' to someone without even letting her feel that you really mean it.
Comparing this one to 'love' is not a very good idea. I think this analogy even made everything more complicated. Ugh, basta, I hope you already got my point. Good day!